Life itself forces many to think about whether love hypnosis exists and how to use its techniques. It is difficult to find a person, man or woman, who would not like to be attractive to the opposite sex, to evoke feelings of love. But some manage to win hearts almost at first sight, while others suffer being lonely. That’s why stories about tricks that make it possible to attract the attention of a possible partner, evoke a reciprocal feeling, and finally arrange your personal life are so popular. The use of love hypnosis is a method that allows you to achieve what you want.
The essence of love hypnosis
Love hypnosis is the ability of one person to influence another using speech, tactile, and behavioral types of influence. The main goal is to create affection. Love hypnosis is like a powerful aphrodisiac. But you need to try hard to achieve such an effect. It will be easier to evoke a strong feeling in the chosen one for a person who lives in harmony with himself, evaluates himself adequately, and does not really care about the opinions of others. Therefore, first it is advisable to find yourself, your uniqueness, and become interesting.
Please note: the secrets of love hypnosis lie in mastering its tools, acquiring skills and experience. This is accessible to almost anyone.
This can be learned using the online course “Training in modern hypnosis,” created by psychologist-hypnologist Nikita Valerievich Baturin.
Interest in hypnosis for self-love as a way to win the man you like is more typical for representatives of the fair half of humanity. It is not easy to find a girl who would not want to create a strong relationship, a happy family, become valuable and significant to her partner, and win his love. Men tend to approach relationships often more selfishly, but sooner or later they also begin to look for lasting relationships and, if the chosen object is unapproachable, they are ready to use hypnosis for love. Although there are those who use this technique for dishonest manipulation.
A feature of hypnosis is selectivity of thinking. For example, when plunging into a hypnotic trance, a person focuses on the voice of the hypnologist and does not perceive other sounds. Or, in other words, it concentrates on a specific idea and cuts off other stimuli.
Falling in love can also be called a kind of altered state of consciousness, when thinking works selectively. The object of love is seen as ideal, but its real, perhaps completely unattractive qualities are not noticed. That is, in order to fall in love, you need to hypnotize yourself into love, convince yourself that the other person is an ideal partner. Following this illusion come feelings - happiness, delight, the desire not to part with your loved one.
Experienced seducers try to maintain mystery, revealing only part of their positive qualities. The human psyche is designed in such a way that he is happy to fill empty spaces. Therefore, the character traits and advantages of the seducer will be completed by the seduced exactly as he wants to see them. Immersion in love under hypnosis can be called creating a situation so that the seduced person begins to hypnotize himself: find the necessary threads to launch the mechanism of self-hypnosis, then help consolidate the state, strengthen the dominant idea through suggestion. Special techniques and strategies help achieve this.
“Love hypnosis” from the point of view of scientific psychology
Speaking on behalf of scientific psychology, we must immediately discard any unscientific ideas about hypnosis. In this vein, naturally, there is simply no “ love hypnosis ”. It also does not exist as a special type of hypnosis. However, it is quite easy to understand that this term can quite reasonably be used from an everyday point of view. For example, an ordinary person can talk about “love hypnosis” about those situations that are meant when a certain person unconsciously, unconsciously or involuntarily experiences “love” feelings towards another person - the potential object of his love. Moreover, the expression about “love hypnosis” becomes even more appropriate and justified if we notice that the person who is subject to it expresses or experiences these feelings in an intense and somehow independent of his will way, as if in some altered or unusual state consciousness.
However, a separate question is how this person “found himself” in such a state, where and why did it arise for him? The question can be posed another way: could this state or this way of expressing love for someone else be beneficial? Or does someone strive for a person to express their love feelings in this way?! The last formulation of the question is already more emotionally charged and evokes a stronger possibility of answering it.
Indeed, it is not difficult for me to imagine the answer to the question in its latest formulation. Currently (10-20 years), the market for psychotechnologies (and often pseudo-technologies of various natures) is actively developing and promoting, with the help of the tools of which one can supposedly achieve various effects on human consciousness (on thoughts, feelings, experiences, actions) in order to to achieve the goals of the influencing (more precisely, interested) party. In this context, “ love hypnosis ” becomes a technology for influencing the consciousness of the subject and possibly manipulating him. Perhaps it is in this sense that the term “ love hypnosis ” is used mostly as a topic for questioning on the Internet in order to find useful information on this topic.
As a matter of fact, I, as a psychologist, wanted to bring my reader precisely to this context of understanding “love hypnosis,” which, in my opinion, is the most popular from the point of view of searching for information on this topic. I will say even more specifically: before I started writing this short publication, I asked search engines about what answers were already offered on the Internet regarding the topic “ love hypnosis ,” i.e. which pages are trying to offer the reader food for information consumption.
It was not surprising that among the first responses to the query “love hypnosis” there were pages offering certain courses or techniques aimed, in common parlance, at brainwashing the victims of such manipulations. I saved examples of these pages in a gallery of screenshots that I specially prepared for discussing this topic and which can be viewed below.
Screenshots of pages quite clearly demonstrate the possibility of selling specific services that are aimed at a specific audience that is susceptible to using (including purchasing) such services. Unfortunately, there is a demand for such services, which means that the conditions that make them possible exist. The reader should also be well aware that these services have nothing to do with practical psychology, which is built on a consistently scientific basis. They can only adapt or disguise themselves as scientific practical psychology, and practical psychology, built on certain ethical foundations, obviously does not use “love hypnosis” for the purpose of manipulating someone’s consciousness.
Moreover, genuine feelings of love cannot be built or assume as their basis that those whom I love are manipulated for any purpose! This also means that people who turn to and resort to such possibilities of manipulation, called in this case “ love hypnosis ,” do not solve their own problems because such methods are resorted to only if the object of my feelings is considered as a means, or even as thing. Ultimately, all these “witchcraft acts” of love hypnosis ultimately only lead to the fact that “manipulators” and “victims” often become real clients of psychologists or psychotherapists.
Draw your conclusions, ladies and gentlemen!
In conclusion of this short publication, I would like to draw the reader’s attention to the fact that there is always the opportunity to contact a professional psychologist if you are experiencing any problems related to relationships in the area of love and affection. If difficulties or problems arise, you should not immediately rush into the veil of magic and “love hypnosis” that does not guarantee you anything, or similar lightweight promises that do not guarantee anything! Do not forget that in the conditions of domestic reality, good money scams can easily be carried out on your problems, involving you in a specially tailored game, which can sometimes be called “ love hypnosis ” or something else. It's always a good idea to be critical of what kind of bait you can swallow. Finally, let’s look at the most, in our opinion, disgusting things that the priests of “love hypnosis” use.
Hypnosis techniques for love
Love hypnosis is carried out using neuro-linguistic programming or Ericksonian hypnosis. The impact begins with adjusting to the interlocutor. It is advisable to take the same position. Start repeating gestures, rhythm of movements. You need to try to breathe in rhythm with him. It is advisable to copy the interlocutor as much as possible with the pace of speech and timbre of the voice. At the same time, you need to try to make these changes in behavior unnoticeable to him.
Then in a conversation you can touch on a topic that will not cause disagreement and quote your interlocutor. After this, you can start using hypnotic phrases. Here are some ways:
- the choice given to the partner is purely formal: “Shall we go to a cafe or take a walk in the park, as you want?”;
- to get a person’s consent to something, you need to use three or four phrases implying a positive answer, subconsciously set him up for consent and then ask your main question;
- the desired phrase, highlighted by intonation (for example, “We are made for each other”), is inserted into a very long statement;
- a rhetorical question or platitude that prompts the desired action: “I wonder if it’s true that the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach? It seems so. When a woman loves a man, she always tries to please him with something tasty and special”;
- the use of metaphors in combination with a slow, languid voice to set the partner in a loving mood (the use of words such as pleasure, pleasant, gentle, soft, etc. is important);
- lulling the partner's vigilance in case there is a possibility of receiving a sharp refusal (relaxation with a boring, monotonous, meaningless story);
- destroying the stereotype, causing confusion (a second trance will allow you to convey a suggestion to your partner with a look or words);
- a sudden interruption of the conversation and leaving at the peak of the partner’s interest makes him feel a pull, a desire to see each other again.
These techniques can be used not only to evoke the right feeling in the desired partner. A woman can use similar hypnosis on her husband to get what she wants or to refresh her feelings.
Important! Manipulating the feelings and actions of another person cannot be called a good deed. But it becomes especially unethical when used by a dishonest person for nefarious purposes.
Love hypnosis does not seem natural and correct to all people. In their opinion, the choice of a partner should not be based on the establishment of artificial psychological dependence and subordination. But in some situations, the use of love hypnosis is the only way a person can create a happy couple. Many are driven precisely by the feeling of love, the desire to take care of their partner in the future.
There are cases when love manipulation, the desire to control the consciousness of a partner, has nothing to do with feelings, but is based on the desire to increase well-being and gain power. To avoid becoming a victim of such dangerous and insidious manipulations, both women and men need to be careful. Even if a person is not going to use hypnosis to love himself, it will not hurt him to have an idea of its basic techniques in order to recognize a love manipulator in a stranger in time.
How to attract attention
Before you start using love hypnosis, you need to ensure the attention of your interlocutor. You can attract him by following several rules, and they are suitable for representatives of both sexes:
- Work on appearance. Even if your appearance is far from perfect, it can be improved endlessly. For example, through sports. Women's weapon is proper makeup. Clothes should be chosen carefully, emphasizing the dignity of the figure. A prerequisite is cleanliness and neatness. And finally, the conviction of one’s own irresistibility. This is read subconsciously by a member of the opposite sex and causes an appropriate reaction.
- Confidence and determination. If your character lacks these qualities, they can be developed through auto-training and self-hypnosis. A person who is going to resort to hypnosis for love must radiate inner strength, calmness, speak confidently and look the interlocutor in the eyes. His firm inner conviction that it is impossible not to pay attention to him will definitely work and subconsciously interest his partner.
- Listening skills. People love to talk about themselves. If you show attention to a person and become an ideal listener, this will be appreciated and will help create intimacy. With such an ideal “interlocutor” you will want to continue the conversation and meet again.
- Touching. They should be unobtrusive, as if random. Tactile contact will definitely have an effect on the interlocutor and will be etched into his memory. If you take a person by the hand and lightly press on the wrist (it is important to look straight into the eyes), you can put him into a light hypnotic trance. This disarms, deprives one of will, and paralyzes the ability to critically assess the situation.
If you adopt these techniques, you can achieve a lot on the love front, convince your chosen one or chosen one that they have met the person of their dreams.
How to make a man fall in love with you using love hypnosis
Women who are not spoiled by male attention envy beauties, mistakenly believing that it’s all about beauty, and you need to rely on appearance. Of course, bright beauty is easy to attract. But you need to be able to keep a potential partner. Those who have the ability to subtly manipulate men win. Women who cannot easily win men's hearts should think about whether it is possible to use hypnosis to make someone of the opposite sex fall in love with themselves.
Female hypnosis is based on implicit, hidden control of the male subconscious. A man is not able to resist what happens unnoticed, what one does not suspect. With the help of love hypnosis on a man, a woman gets the opportunity to control him, inspire her will, and achieve a solution to the task.
To understand how to control a man using love hypnosis, you need to master some specific techniques of behavior with your chosen one. If a woman wants to make a man fall in love with her, she must treat him as if they were already an established couple. The use of words, movements, postures, and manners should create the illusion in the partner that he has been together with this woman for a long time. Female love hypnosis with the help of these techniques will first influence the chosen one at the subconscious level, then the changes will affect the consciousness, and falling in love will really arise.
Experienced coquettes know effective techniques on how to make a man fall in love with you using hypnosis. For example, alternating ardor and cooling, adoration and indifference, admiration and detachment. This method is also called a “contrast shower”. The woman’s behavior hints to the man that it is too early to consider his victory final, that the right to the “trophy” may be given to someone more worthy. The instinct of a hunter is strong in men, and if the illusion of owning a trophy is lost, he does everything to return it.
Another technique is the so-called anchor method. It consists of inducing positive emotions in a partner with affectionate phrases with playful overtones. For example, “Think of me before you go to sleep” or “I hope you smile when you hear me call.” Such phrases evoke corresponding positive emotions. They encourage you to think about your partner, fall in love with her, and motivate you to take more decisive action.
Another technique is often called the “Hidden Injection.” In a story that is necessarily positive, you need to insert a phrase that expresses your desire, and highlight it with pauses at the beginning and at the end, intonationally, accompanied by a touch, a meaningful look. The phrase will reach the subconscious of the interlocutor and linger in it. This technique, as well as the method of using metaphors and unexpectedly breaking contact, have already been mentioned above as elements of NLP and Ericksonian hypnosis.
When trying to put these tips into practice, trying to inspire love in your partner under hypnosis, you need to remember a sense of proportion. If you use them too often and assertively, you can seem to your partner not quite adequate and achieve the opposite effect of the desired one - a complete cessation of contact. Common sense and women's intuition should help you act unnoticed and stop in time.
How to master hypnosis yourself at home?
Hypnosis is a short-term state of a person in which his consciousness has a sharp focus of attention and is highly susceptible to suggestion. In this state, a person falls into a trance, and for some time his consciousness slows down its activity.
While the hypnotized person is in a trance, those around him have the opportunity to better study his behavior, or force him to give up bad habits forever.
There have been cases when, with the help of hypnosis, they tried to cure seriously ill people. Sometimes such attempts met with significant success.
Today, due to the enormous popularity of hypnosis, many people want to learn this amazing skill on their own.
In order to comprehend the secret of hypnosis, you must first learn a few simple rules:
- to master the technique of hypnosis, you need to be a completely confident person;
- in order to hypnotize a person you need to have a firm and confident voice;
- for a successful hypnosis session you need to establish firm contact with your patient, you need to let the person relax and gain his full favor;
- Under no circumstances should you resort to the influence of psychotropic substances.
The main secret to mastering the skill of hypnosis is concentration. It promotes concentration of gaze. First you should learn to concentrate your gaze on some point in space.
The easiest way to learn this is to take a piece of paper and draw a small dot in the center, the size of a small coin. After this, try to look at the center of this point for as long as possible, without blinking your eyes. By concentrating your gaze, you can concentrate all your attention. Repeat this exercise every day, and after a while your gaze will begin to have the ability to subjugate the attention of another person.
After mastering the ability to concentrate your gaze, you can move on to mastering the mastery of ideomotor skills. The secret of this system is that by concentrating your gaze, you can send messages or commands to another person to perform any actions.
First, try to concentrate your attention on a nearby person and mentally send him a certain command. For example, straighten the hair on your head, look at your shoes, open or close a book, etc. Gradually, having mastered the skill of ideomotor, you will be able to stimulate people to make the decision you need, or to perform the action you need.
How male love hypnosis works on women
A man who wants to learn how to control women can learn love hypnosis for men, or a set of specific techniques. They are aimed at capturing the perception of the hypnotized person and redirecting her consciousness in the desired direction.
Love hypnosis for men who want to achieve reciprocity from the women they like consists mainly of verbal influence. Not a single representative of the fair sex will remain indifferent to the endless stream of eloquent statements of admiration, compliments, and promising speeches, especially if they are repeated day after day. Hypnosis for love can make a woman change the beliefs she previously had about a man, break off relationships with friends and even family. A woman under the influence of love hypnosis does not even notice obvious signs of her chosen one’s unreliability.
Impact techniques
Among the most famous techniques are:
- hidden injection;
- speech traps;
- anchor;
- metaphors;
- effect of surprise.
Hidden injection
This method is used to conquer a man with the help of a certain phrase, which is successfully said by the lady during the dialogue. A remark carrying love hypnosis must be pronounced after a pause, and there is a change in voice timbre, volume, and intonation. Gestures or soft touch are involved. Information that is “downloaded” into the subconscious of a potential gentleman must be formulated clearly and concisely. It can be an expression of feelings, desires, dreams or goals. The essence of the injection is that a person will not notice the effect, but it will definitely penetrate his memory and remain there for a long time.
Speech traps
Speech and a pleasant manner of speaking are very important, so many are interested in questions about whether such love hypnosis can work for men or how to control your voice for suggestion. Experts assure that no less important than the voice are the phrases spoken to the partner during communication. The replica should look so that it has a hidden meaning; it should contain a veiled desire or hint. For example, the phrase “It would be great to be with you and admire the starry sky” can serve as a kind of offer of solitude and evidence of a desire to be with your lover in a more romantic environment.
Anchor
This kind of love hook can be thrown into the target if you build tactics of positive emotions. Affectionate words, playfulness, etc. are suitable for this. For example, the phrases “I’ll meet you in your dreams” or “When I call you back, I’ll hear your pleasant voice!” Such anchors allow you to achieve positivity on the part of a man, and also make him think about the girl who sends these vibrations.
A playful tone encourages a man to expect it again and again, receiving positive emotions even in his thoughts.
Metaphors
This technique refers to the woman’s hints about the intimate nature of the relationship. She can create a metaphor that she was outside today and felt the wind, which reminded her of light kisses. Or she drank hot coffee, like a passion that could flare up at any second. Such metaphors are very popular with men, especially those who are sensitive and have a high libido.
Surprise
The surprise technique is aimed at surprising a potential gentleman, but this must be done wisely. You may suddenly demonstrate abilities that he was not aware of before (the ability to sing or speak English fluently). Leaving in the middle of a date can also be more unexpected, which will cause the guy to be shocked and want to figure it out. However, this method can also scare off a potential partner, so it is better to resort to it less often.