What to write to a guy in SMS if he doesn’t write

If you had a fight

How to write an SMS to a guy who doesn’t write or call after a quarrel? Choose the appropriate option!

If you love, then you are always ready to meet halfway. If love has passed, words are unnecessary.
Even the most loving woman is not ready to wait forever.
Don't be afraid to tell me what's on your heart. You know how I really feel about you.
Sometimes quarrels bring us to the brink of breaking. But we must join hands and move away from this abyss, beyond which there is emptiness.
Just hear your words and forget everything.
I think only stupid, primitive people don’t quarrel. See, we're not like that.
Just talk to me. Just answer me.
I didn’t dare to write for a long time. But I'm afraid that my indecisiveness could ruin our relationship.
If you are silent because you think I am angry, then you are terribly mistaken.
Let's not be silent and torment each other with this silence. It’s so easy to tell each other what’s in your heart. And just be together.
I’m tired of waiting for your words and I ask you: don’t be silent, answer me.

Reasons why a guy with whom he is not yet very close ignores

1. The simplest reason is “I don’t really like her.”

Yes, a guy can ignore. And before that he looked into the eyes for a long time. Or even asked me out on a date. Or even hinted at living together (!!!). Sent SMS “good morning, good night.” Called him a bunny, a bird. Sprinkled compliments. In general, he seems to like you. Yes, you're sure you like it! How could it be otherwise when a man behaves like this?

Otherwise it could be like this:

-he was bored
-he quarreled with his beloved woman and decided to flirt a little, to raise his self-esteem
-he just wants female attention. Showing a little attention to you, he gets falling in love in return - is that bad? This is how it is energized
-at the first stage, he really liked you. Beautiful because... But after talking, I decided “no, not mine!”

In any case, the measure of whether he really likes you or not will ONLY be his set of actions towards you!!!

And ignoring is a telling act. It is so?

2. “She’s so beautiful, smart, successful, and compared to her I’m a loser.”

A man ignores the girl he likes if he believes that they are not a couple, that their relationship has no future. There's nothing to start with. He is ready to suffer, to get sick.

But for a relationship, a guy will choose his equal. Because he doesn’t want to condemn himself to suffering. To endless jealousy. The feeling that you are only in the shadow of your woman. Or, to endless, exhausting competition with other applicants.

3. “I studied the theory of pickup and I know for sure that a woman must be ignored in order for her to be interested. The great pick-up artist Pushkin also wrote about this.” That is, a man ignores - does that mean he loves?

Well, that is, the less we love a woman, the easier it is for her to like us. In other words, the guy is literate. And at the same time he will play with you.

However, if he really has feelings for you, then he will still screw up. In looks that last too long. At meetings, seemingly “random” ones. Or, on a special voice timbre, turned on only with you...

Especially considering that women are empathetic, feeling creatures, intuition works. It is she, intuition, who will tell you what to pay attention to in order to notice: But the guy is in love, although he ignores it with all his might!

If you haven't seen each other for a long time

Have you been separated for a long time and are you afraid that your lover has forgotten about you? Write to him first!

Distances cannot kill love if it is real.
Even when I'm apart from you, I always feel that you are next to me. And you?
If I can’t see you as often as I want, let’s at least write to each other. At least once a day. Otherwise it's unbearable.
I'm waiting for you. I love you. Write me.
Sometimes intimacy is not in touch, but in warm words spoken when you especially want it.
Imagine that I am next to you. What would you say to me when we meet?
I didn’t even think that it would be so hard for me to experience separation from you. Write to me, lighten my burden.
I would like to see your look, touch your lips, hold your hand. But for now I can only read your messages and smile when I look at them.
The only reason why you can't write to me for so long is because you lost your cell phone.
Don't make my heart ache. Don't make me burn in the fire of jealousy and suspicion. Just talk to me and I will be happy that you still remember me.
Our love will pass the test of distance only if we do not interrupt our communication. Write to me, tell me you love me, and I will answer in kind.
We are far from each other, but if you write to me, you immediately feel as if we have never been apart for a minute. Give me this feeling again, I beg you.

Men's opinions

“I can’t stand it when a girl starts messaging me right after a fight. I haven’t had time to get over my emotions yet, but it’s already annoying. If a girl is not indifferent to me, I will definitely get in touch with her.”

Yaroslav, 26 years old

“When a guy ignores a girl, there is only one explanation for this - he is indifferent to her. The rest is excuses.”

Fedor, 18 years old

“Sometimes I disappear from a lady’s sight to stir up interest.”

If he's too busy

Sometimes guys don’t write because they’re busy at work or school. Try to distract your loved one!

You must have forgotten me. And I wait for every news, every word.
Women can forgive a lot. But they cannot forgive when they are forgotten.
I see that you have found more interesting things to do than communicate with me.
Work is important. But at the end of our lives, we remember not about work, but about the minutes spent next to those we love.
Let's just forget about responsibilities for a while and be together?
Wrote a report? Write to me too!
Is your boss more important to you than me? Will your boss cook you delicious dinners, kiss you before bed and give you a massage? And I will!
Try to forget about business for a moment and remember what is really important.
I'm tired of waiting for you to be free. Just write to me.
Making money is very important. But you forget why we live on this planet. Definitely not for the money.
I love you and you love your job. I'm having a hard time with this love triangle.
Sometimes in the hustle and bustle of life we forget about what is really important. You're not here and it hurts me. Write and you will give me a smile.

What to write to a guy so that he responds

Original questions:

I have a special program that calculates the phone numbers of the coolest guys. Guess whose number was first on the list?
I want to tell you something, but first I need to know how you are feeling.
Scientists have proven that people who have no personal life hold their phone in their right hand. Which one are you in?
Today I realized that I look like a raccoon: there are always circles under my eyes, I seem cute, but I can bite. What animal are you like?
I'm looking forward to it like crazy. I can't eat or sleep! Are you also waiting for the finale of Game of Thrones (Avengers, Supernatural, etc.).

See the continuation of the original questions here.

Funny SMS for a guy:

You have 3 seconds to refuse a date with me... Oops, I didn't have time!
I want to feel something sticky and tasty on my lips...could you buy a chocolate bar?
I’m burning with impatience: I can’t eat, sleep or work...Are you also looking forward to the finale of the “Game of Thrones” (the Football Championship, or any other movie/series/sporting or cultural event)?
Since I recently received my driver's license, it is my duty to warn you about a new danger on the roads. Tell me where you live and I will try my best to be careful while driving. But I can not promise.

Flirting messages:

Do you want to tell me a secret? I'm beautiful, but you are not!
Today I dreamed of a guy very similar to you. True, he had a white horse, a crown and a sword. Maybe you are my handsome prince?
You look great. How do you do it?
What is your priority: intelligence or beauty?
Do you believe in love on the Internet?

If you want to ask for forgiveness

Do you feel guilty and want to take the first step towards reconciliation? The main thing is to choose the right words!

I'm sorry. I'm to blame for you. If you love, you can forgive.
If you write me at least one line, I will understand that you have forgiven me.
Sometimes I do stupid things that I later regret. I didn't mean to hurt you. Don't take revenge on me with your silence.
It’s better to talk openly and find out everything, rather than remain silent and guess what’s on your loved one’s mind. Let's tell each other everything we're thinking.
Asking for forgiveness is never easy. But I'm ready to tell you that I'm guilty. What is important to me is that you forgive me. That I love you more than myself.
You have the right to be angry. You have the right to remain silent. But you have no right to torment me with your silence. Let's talk, otherwise I won't be able to move on.
You have already punished me for my wrongdoing with your long silence. If you knew how much it hurts me, you wouldn't do this.
A loving heart will always forgive. A lover will always extend his hand. We love each other, it's time to stop playing these stupid childish games.
Our love has gone through many trials. We will overcome this too. If we talk to each other. If you answer me. I took the first step. Come meet me halfway if you want a hug.
Happiness sometimes hangs by a thread. If we don't talk to you, then we won't have a common future. It won’t be what we planned, what we dreamed about. Are petty grievances worth such a sacrifice? I think no.
Write me. And I will understand that you are generous enough to forgive. To forget the grievances. To say you love me.
There is no more terrible punishment than the silence of a loved one. I think you've punished me enough. I'm hurt and lonely, I think only about you all the time. It's time to start negotiations.

Sometimes it's hard to force yourself to write first. However, it pays to be determined. After all, it is possible that your future happiness depends on it. Don't be afraid to draw, and your courage will be rewarded!

How to remind a man about yourself: good methods

Long gone are the days when it was considered indecent for a girl to be the first to start a conversation with a young man. In the modern world, the situation has changed, because today we have emancipation, which means everyone has equal rights. Any man will be pleased if a girl pays attention to him. But some girls, losing their heads from feelings, are ready to do anything and behave too intrusively; this is not very good, since moderation is needed in everything. If you wrote a message or called and he did not answer, you should not do this many times in a row. Perhaps your boyfriend is busy at the moment or simply forgot his phone at home. And in principle, many calls or text messages in a row suggests that something has happened.

What can be done in this situation:

Call once. If a girl has never called first, but wants to talk to a guy, you should deviate from this rule once.
Write on social networks. Start a conversation by starting with a question, for example, how was your day? As the conversation progresses, you can understand how interested he is in you.
Write SMS. The main thing here is to make the right message; the message should have a positive message. You can write about a shared memory, give a compliment, or simply send a beautiful picture.
Provoke. Write an SMS or a message on social networks about something, and when he answers, say: “Sorry, I got the wrong address.”
Share news. The news should be of a nature that relates to his hobbies or hobbies. And, in general, this method - being interested in the same thing as the guy and the discussion, works 100%, in any case, you will always be on the same wavelength.
Show weakness. There is no need to be shy about talking about your feminine weaknesses. You can call and say how scared you were when there was a thunderstorm. Or – another series moved me to tears.
Use a random encounter. To do this, you need to know where the guy goes, what time he returns home and pretend as if you were there by accident.
Use your date wisely. Forget something from him or ask him to read a book. This will be a surefire way for the next meeting.

How to behave if your husband is angry

Most of you had small children, and if not, then you certainly had to deal with the children of relatives or friends. Surely you have witnessed a situation where a child cannot formulate his request or express his wishes so that adults understand him.

In such a situation, he cannot express his emotions. And what kind of reaction do we see? Being quiet and calm by nature, he begins to scream, get angry, and get nervous. Reaching the extreme point of his dissatisfaction, he may even fall to the floor and fight in hysterics. He yells, kicks his feet, and doesn’t hear anyone. He became completely immersed in this process, plunged headlong into his resentment and indulged in hysteria.

How does a mother behave in such a situation? What can she do?

One decides that it is not worth interfering and somehow correcting this situation. She spontaneously pulls away, stands silently on the sidelines, allowing the child to pour out all her emotions. She's just quietly waiting for the hysteria to stop, whether she likes it or not.

Another mother, who knows how to interact with her child, at a certain moment says the right words in the right tone of voice. A phrase said correctly really quickly brings a child to his senses before he has gone to the extreme point in the manifestations of his emotions.

Finding herself in a similar situation, not with a baby, but with an adult married man, a woman needs to not only understand, but know exactly how to interact with him. What should he say, how should he pronounce this or that phrase. There is nothing complicated here. Knowing certain psychological nuances, you can remove even such an extreme degree of aggression, anger and conflict behavior. Everything is very simple. All that remains is to find out how to do it.

Where do the legs grow from or why does ignoring work in the opposite direction?

Surely, many of you have heard that by ignoring a person, you can attract his attention. But the question immediately arises: “Is this even legal?” How it works?

Human nature is such that we are all selfish creatures! And this is an established fact, even the most altruistic people are not able to argue with the laws of nature that work at the conscious and subconscious levels.

If we are still able to control our consciousness, then, alas, we cannot control our subconscious.

“Why ignore a person to attract attention,” you ask. On the contrary, you can try to “show yourself” in all your glory!

But the reality is that the person who is being ignored is, in most cases, capable of feeling rejected.

And then Her Majesty “Narcissism” comes onto the stage. Coupled with egoism, this produces a nuclear mixture, encouraging a person to prove his worth and importance.

This is where it begins... The attention of the ignored person to the ignorer increases quite significantly. In fact, this works precisely because the ignored person wants to prove his importance, first of all, to himself - that he is needed, that he is noticed.

Therefore, we can say that such a “seduction scheme” works solely from the selfish motives of the potential victim. And considering that a person initially has a code in his subconscious to love himself, which encourages him to increase the level of his own self-sufficiency, this method works for most people.

However, it is worth considering that this method is not a magic wand and it does not guarantee one hundred percent success in attracting attention. It works under certain conditions, which I propose to get acquainted with right now.

How to make peace after a quarrel

The situations described above were when a couple either has not yet formed, or in general they do not have problems as such, but only issues with personal space. But what if your significant other turns on ignore after a quarrel?

If you want to smooth out an unpleasant state after a quarrel, then do not rush to talk and apologize. Let your opponent cool down, calm down, and comprehend what happened. Otherwise, you can run into rudeness and a continuation of the scandal.

After waiting for some time, try to talk calmly, carefully choosing your words, get into a position, demonstrate understanding. Choose your time to communicate wisely. Don’t leave out text messages in the middle of the workday, and if you do write, do it once and wait patiently for an answer.

Don’t let them ignore you, tell them that this is unpleasant and you don’t need to behave like that with a loved one.

Try to be offended to a minimum, and never demonstrate indifference in response. Think not only about your own feelings, but also about your other half. If a person does not make contact, continuing to ignore all efforts on your part, then it is worth raising the question of the advisability of continuing such a relationship.